Last Updated on November 6, 2025 by Denise Leo
Learn whether Pomeranians are suitable for children in this comprehensive guide. Discover their temperament, training techniques, supervision tips, and learn how to create a safe and happy environment for both children and Pomeranians.
Pomeranians, with their fluffy coats and lively personalities, have captured the hearts of many. But when it comes to households with children, is this breed a suitable companion? This guide delves deep into the relationship between Pomeranians and kids, offering insights and practical advice for potential pet owners.
Understanding Pomeranians: Beyond the Fluffy Exterior
Pomeranians might be tiny, but their personalities are larger than life. Energetic, alert, and sometimes feisty, they bring life to any household. However, it’s essential to understand their temperament, which can sometimes be unpredictable.
Are Pomeranians Kid-Friendly?
Generally, Pomeranians are sociable creatures. They enjoy human interaction and can form strong bonds with family members, including kids. However, they might not be the best fit for very young children who might not understand how to handle a small dog gently.
Key Considerations for a Pomeranian-Kid Household
Safety First
With their exuberant energy and unpredictability, young children can sometimes be a challenge for Pomeranians. Parents must ensure both their child and the Pomeranian are safe by:
- Teaching children how to approach and handle the dog.
- Supervising interactions between the two.
Understanding Pomeranians’ Needs
Like all dogs, Pomeranians have needs that should be addressed. They require:
- Regular exercise helps burn off their energy.
- A balanced diet is necessary to maintain their health.
- Time for grooming due to their thick coat.
Respect Boundaries
Pomeranians, despite their friendly disposition, need their space. Children must respect the dog’s boundaries to ensure a harmonious living environment.
Building a Positive Relationship Between Kids and Pomeranians
Introducing a Pomeranian into a home with children can be a joyful experience when approached correctly. The key lies in preparation, education, and consistency. Before bringing your fluffy companion home, take time to teach children about responsible pet care. Show them how to read a dog’s body language—such as the difference between a relaxed Pom and one that’s anxious or overstimulated. Explaining these subtle cues early helps prevent misunderstandings and encourages empathy.
Please encourage your child to participate in daily routines, such as feeding, brushing their teeth, and helping with short walks. These shared activities strengthen the bond between the dog and the child while also helping your child learn accountability. Even young children can participate in simple, supervised tasks, such as offering treats or gently brushing the Pom’s coat with a soft brush.
The Importance of Training and Socialization
Socialisation is vital for all dogs, but especially for Pomeranians. Their naturally alert nature makes them excellent watchdogs, yet it can also lead to excessive barking or nervousness if not properly managed. Early and consistent socialization—introducing your Pom to a variety of people, environments, and experiences—will help them grow into a confident, adaptable pet.
Puppy kindergarten classes are an excellent starting point for your puppy’s education. These sessions offer a safe and structured environment where your Pomeranian can learn basic obedience while becoming accustomed to other dogs and people. Training should always use positive reinforcement methods. Praise, play, and small treats are far more effective than harsh corrections.
When a Pomeranian understands expectations, it becomes easier for them to relax around children. Clear rules also help children understand boundaries—for instance, that the dog’s bed or crate is a quiet zone where the Pom can retreat undisturbed.
Supervision Is Essential
Even the most well-behaved child and the gentlest Pomeranian need supervision when together. Young children can accidentally startle or injure a small dog, and a frightened Pom might snap in self-defence. Always supervise playtime until both the child and the Pomeranian consistently display calm, gentle behaviour.
If play becomes too rough or noisy, it’s the perfect opportunity to teach “quiet time.” Encourage both the child and the Pom to take a break. Children should learn that if the dog walks away or hides, they must respect that signal and allow the dog to rest.
Grooming as a Shared Routine
Pomeranians have a magnificent double coat that requires regular brushing to prevent matting. Turning grooming sessions into a family activity helps children develop compassion and patience. A child can hold the brush while an adult guides their hand, or they can help by gently handing tools. Explaining why grooming is important—such as keeping the dog comfortable and preventing skin issues—turns a simple task into a valuable life lesson in empathy and responsibility.
Regular brushing also provides an opportunity to check for any changes in the dog’s coat or skin, such as tangles, redness, or the presence of fleas. When children participate in these routines, they learn to notice and care for the needs of another living being.
Teaching Respect for Small Dogs
Due to their small stature, Pomeranians are vulnerable to accidental injury. Children should be taught never to pull on the Pom’s tail or fur, never to chase them, and never to pick them up without adult help. Lifting should always be done by an adult who supports both the chest and hindquarters.
Creating dog-free zones—such as a crate or small playpen—allows your Pomeranian to have a secure space of their own. Encourage children to see this area as the dog’s “bedroom,” a place to be left alone. Respecting a dog’s space helps prevent bites and builds mutual trust.
Managing Barking and Excitement
Pomeranians are known for their big voices. While barking can be useful for alerting, it may become excessive if not managed early. Teaching your Pom a “quiet” command and rewarding calm behaviour will make home life more peaceful. Children can help with training by practicing quiet indoor play so they don’t encourage excitable barking.
A well-trained Pomeranian who understands calm behaviour is more enjoyable around children and guests. If barking persists, gentle redirection or obedience training with professional guidance can make a big difference.
The Role of Routine and Stability
Both children and Pomeranians thrive on routine. Feeding, walks, playtime, and bedtime should occur at approximately the same times each day. Predictability helps your Pomeranian feel secure and reduces anxiety. Children can be part of this daily rhythm—perhaps by measuring food, helping refill water bowls, or assisting with leash walking in the backyard.
When a child feels involved in a pet’s care, it nurtures self-esteem and teaches empathy. Meanwhile, the Pomeranian benefits from consistency and structure, knowing when to expect food, affection, and rest.
Exercise and Play Ideas
Although small, Pomeranians need daily physical and mental exercise. A secure backyard or indoor play area is ideal for short games of fetch or chase with lightweight toys. Avoid rough play or tug-of-war with young children, as these can lead to accidental bites or falls.
Puzzle toys, snuffle mats, and obedience games can also keep a Pom mentally sharp. Involving children in creating simple games—like hiding small treats for the Pom to find—provides interactive fun while strengthening their bond.
Health and Veterinary Care
Regular veterinary visits are essential to maintaining your Pomeranian’s health. Teach children that caring for a pet includes routine check-ups, vaccinations, dental care, and grooming. Discussing why these appointments matter helps demystify the process and instills a lifelong respect for animal welfare.
Because Pomeranians are small, children should also be aware that even a minor injury could be serious. For example, a fall from a child’s arms or rough handling can cause fractures or dislocations. Explaining this in age-appropriate terms encourages gentleness and mindfulness.
Emotional Benefits for Children
Growing up with a Pomeranian offers countless emotional rewards. The strong companionship of a loyal Pom teaches unconditional love, patience, and responsibility. Many children find comfort in their dog’s presence, especially during stressful or lonely moments. The Pomeranian’s cheerful nature and affectionate personality can bring laughter and light to a household.
Learning to care for a living creature also helps children develop compassion, empathy, and respect for all animals. These lessons can last a lifetime, shaping how they treat others.
When a Pomeranian May Not Be the Right Fit
While Pomeranians can make wonderful family pets, they may not be suitable for every household. Families with toddlers or very boisterous children might find the Pom too fragile. If a child is prone to loud outbursts or rough play, a sturdier breed may be more appropriate until the child is older.
Likewise, families who are away from home for long hours may not have enough time to give a Pomeranian the attention it craves. These dogs form a strong bond with their owners and can experience separation anxiety if left alone for extended periods.
Before making a decision, it’s worth speaking with an experienced breeder or visiting a few adult Pomeranians to observe their size, temperament, and energy level firsthand.
Final Thoughts: Creating Harmony Between Poms and Kids
With proper guidance, supervision, and education, Pomeranians can be delightful companions for children. They bring endless affection, loyalty, and fun to family life. However, it’s vital to remember that they are delicate little dogs who rely on gentle handling and consistent care.
Families who invest the time to train their Pom, teach their children respect, and provide love and structure will be rewarded with a cheerful, intelligent friend who adores being part of family life.
Disclaimer
This information is provided as general educational guidance. Every dog and child is different. Always consult your veterinarian or a qualified animal behaviourist for specific health or behavioural advice.
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References and Further Reading:
[1] Denise Leo: The Pomeranian Handbook.
[2] Pomeranian Headquarters.
[3] Reputable Pomeranian Breeders Australia.
[4] Dochlaggie Pomeranian Australia.
